About Carol

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Mom,
You have lit up my life for 47 years with your smile, energy, and positive energy. I am a lucky man to of had your love, guidance, patience, and compassion. You have inspired me, encouraged me, and guided me on my journey. I will always look and listen for you as I know you’ll be with us. My children were showered with your love and adoration- they will take it with them forever as you are a part of their hearts.
We all love you mom/ Nonna and will honor your life always.
Love always,
Matt, Melanie, Zoe, and Colin

Mom,
There are not enough words in the universe that would allow me to justly express how I’m feeling. You are the definition of motherly love. Countless powerful memories of the positive energy you infused into our family. It continues to glow in all of us today and it will never stop. The very sound of the word Mom washes over me with warmth.

May everyone be so lucky to live the way you did, with boundless energy and optimism for each day. LIVE, LAUGH, LOVE. You did all of these with intensity and provided a shining example for others to do the same.
I’ll miss that amazing laugh of yours. We promise to take your lead and LIVE, LAUGH and LOVE as you did.

Thank you for being my mom. Thank you for being my kids’ Nonna. Thank you for everything. I am a better man because of you and so proud to be your son. Miss you every day and I carry you with me in my heart forever.

Your loving son,

Stephen

Dear Mom,

I’d never imagined this moment, sitting to write a last goodbye to you, but here I am, filled with emotion, reflecting on the immeasurable impact that you’ve had on my life.  I think about the different stages of my life and your place in them, from the woman who gave me life to the woman who held my boys as they came into this world.  What remained constant was your fierce love- one that was almost primal in its capacity to protect those whom you held close in your heart.  The evolution of this love I could not begin to understand before I became a father but now as I hold my boys in my arms I am sad that you’re gone, but I am also filled with pride that I can honor your life and raise them the way you raised me.  I will give them all that I have as a man so they can become men of solid character, men who will make you proud.  Quinn and Tate will know the tales of Nonna, ones that depict a strong woman who raised three boys; ones that depict a kind woman kind who opened her arms to her boys’ friends that so many felt like a fourth Pedicini; ones that depict a wise woman who instilled the importance of education; and ones that depict a stylish woman whose lipstick and clothes were only outshone by her smile.  

I’d like to end with a memory that I’ve shared with so many people that encapsulates your devotion to your family and your desire for your boys to continue on their paths of finding love and creating families of their own.  The setting is a hospital room in which Matt and Mel have just welcomed the birth of Colin.  Stephen and Rachel, home from San Francisco for a visit, have just given you some pictures to look through which contain a surprise, a sonogram of Izzy who would be born months later in February.  While at the hospital I had taken a drive to secure the engagement ring that I would give to Allison days later and that news leaked to you.  You beamed with pride and joy, raised your arms in the air and exclaimed, “It’s all coming together!”.  I take solace in that you saw your boys married to wonderful women, you not only saw the birth of your six grandchildren but you made an indelible impression upon all of them, showering them with unbridled love.  I’ll miss my boys yelling “Nonna” when you walked through our door but I assure you that they will make you proud.  We will all carry you in our hearts.

All my love,

Jamie

Carol-

The things I will miss about you are endless.  One of the things I will miss the most was laughing with you.  I will miss your sense of style.  You were always dressed impeccably, and always had the shoes to match! I'll never forget at Steve & Rachel's wedding, we had to wait at the airport check-in so that you could load your additional suitcase of shoes only! Quinn & Tate will miss your hugs and they will miss you putting them to sleep on the couch, which only you could do! They will miss rummaging through your purse, playing with your sunglasses and with your hot pink lipstick (which was always left in a big kiss on their faces).  They will miss that you always brought them heart cookies and cupcakes and that you always made them feel so loved and special.  Jamie is the loving father and husband he is today because of you.  We will continue to honor you every day by telling stories, smiling and laughing and  giving kisses with hot pink lipstick on!

We love you!

Allison

Carol-
I knew from the minute I met you in a restaurant on your birthday that if you could be my mother in law I would be lucky. For the next 12 years you did not disappoint. The unwaveringly love, the food, the laughter, the support were endless. But then we had Izzy and Luca and the way I watched you be their Nonna was magical, you became magical. When you walked Into a room it was as if a celebrity walked in. Hugs, kisses, love just flowed from you to them and them to you. I can never replace the love you gave to us and to all your grandchildren but we will try our hardest to give extra love and extra kisses (even if I have or put on pick lipstick) just so they continue to feel it. I could not say it better than Izzy when she said “I didn’t lose a grandparent, I lost my nonna it’s not the same” Truer words have never been spoken. You believed that your mom came to you in the form of a cardinal. We are holding onto that hope that when we see a red bird (and now a blue one too) that maybe that’s you just popping by to say hi and then scooting along to glen head or East meadow. We will all never be the same without you, we will miss your presence every day, but we will try to live like you did: optimistic, joyful and full of love. 

Love, Rachel

I miss you lady!
From the moment we met you termed me as the 4th son. I will never forget what you did for me and my family. My mum and you became friends and she is devastated to see you go. You were the light and love of this whole thing! Our worlds are conducted based on your word.
MacAongusa clan! Love love love.

Mrs. Ped,

I don’t think there was a time when I saw you without seeing a smile on your face. Even after a great Pedicini Ponderosa party at your house- you still always made me feel so welcomed even if you were a little upset what to come home to! You will be greatly missed but I’m confident everyone you touched has so much to celebrate from being part of your life. Rest In Peace...

Love,
Brett

Mrs. Ped,
There isn’t enough space for me to express all that you are and what you have meant to me. You definitely treated me like a fourth son. My childhood was filled with great memories and amazing times with you and the boys. You are a true angel having to deal with all of our craziness from Matt, Jamie, and then Stevie (where I added to the madness). My memories range from being that 40lb shrimp sliding across the backseat of your Oldsmobile as you take a turn at 40mph to the extreme patience you would show us after a ridiculous night of partying in high school. You always treated me in such a special way, I thought of you as a second mother. I spent so much time at your house and yet not once did I ever feel unwelcome. Your kindness and joy was contagious and has had a tremendous impact on so many lives. I was so blessed to have you be such a great part of my life. Thank you!

Love Danny

Carol,
Still cannot believe you are gone. We were lucky enough to have known you for nearly a decade of our lives. It was clear from the moment we met Jamie that he came from a generous, loving, and lively home, which is a direct reflection of you. Your spunky spirit was always a pleasure to be around and bound to put a smile on our faces. We knew if “Carol Ped” were coming, you would always bring a good time, positive vibes, and not the mashed potatoes.
You definitely meant business too…keeping us on our toes as we never knew which hard hitting questions were coming our way.
Thank you for letting us into your heart and your extended family. You will forever be missed by all.
With all our love & light,
Michael & Bridget Italiano

Carol,

My dearest loving sister -- you are the sister who provided your siblings unconditional love and so passionately shared the importance of family. We played together, laughed together, and supported each other through the good and bad times. As you so firmly believed and would always say, “Blood is thicker than water.” A true sentiment that guided us through life. You followed the path that God has intended for you – to be kind, generous, and to be loving of one another, to bring joy and happiness to all you meet. You gave all of yourself so selflessly. That’s the person you are. And I will always value that about you. Even though we had an age difference of 7 years, you always included me in the big sister events. I’ll always cherish our memories of going to the malls, Walt Whitman and Roosevelt Field, and going to parties —of course after finishing our cleaning, ironing, and the household chores mom assigned us. Shopping was your favorite pastime, and I loved going with you and your friends. I was so grateful you would take me and treat me to something new. Oh, and that delicious pizza! I’ll never forget how generous and kind you were when we would hang out with you and your friends. You certainly were a fashion queen then (and still now) and I’m positive you’re showing all the ladies in heaven how to properly dress. Those glitchy, feminine outfits were YOU, while me on the other hand, just wranglers and a plaid flannel shirt were my style, which I know drove you crazy. When we meet in heaven, be sure my style is in reach for me. And those high heels, that memory gave me the greatest laugh, when you called me to tell me you quit your job because you could not make it across Hempstead Tpke before the light turned green in those six inch heels you loved so much! Another amazing thing about you, is that you loved my kids as they were your own, and they loved you back immensely. They loved your visits to Delaware -- playing Taboo, going to the movies, planning trips to New York to see the Christmas tree, it all plays a special part in their hearts. We all grieve for you now but know that you would want us smiling at the memories we’ve shared together. I never thought I would lose you, my best friend. I will miss you being by my side, picking up the phone to hear your beautiful voice or voicemails saying, “HI, ITS ME CALL ME BACK, I got some news!” I know you have crossed over and are with Mom, Dad, Tom and Chris who welcomed you to heaven to be with them and God.
I love you and miss you my guardian angel.

Your loving sister, Tisa

Carol will also be remembered as the best sister-in-law anyone could have. She welcomed me into her family over 35 years ago and thru the years she became more like the sister I never had. Jack says it’s because she always sided with me on any arguments I had With him. I think it was her love of life, always trying to see the good in people and always having the time to listen and give advice that endeared me to her. My friends went from acquaintances to people she would ask me about every time she saw me. I loved spending time with Carol and she never had to ask if she could visit. I came to expect on every sunny weekend that I’d get a call saying , “hi, I ‘m on my way”. She recently visited me in Texas and of course we did the usual shopping and the movies , but when I reflect back on those days I’ll always remember the kindness in her heart to want to give me company while I live In Texas for my new job. I ‘ll also remember our girl’s weekend in Las Vegas and going to see a Jennifer Lopez concert..as much as she loved shopping she also loved music and dancing and there she stood by our seats moving to the music. Carol always sent birthday cards to everyone in my family. She was Alex’s godmother and her love for him was as if he was her own. She always had good advice and having had 3 boys that she adored and always talked about she had plenty to share on advice about raising my one son. I appreciated Her love and wisdom and will miss her terribly, but always will remember that the best way to honor Carol is to continue to have joy, laughter and Family in your hearts. Will miss our talks, love you, Laurene.

Diddy,my diddy, my little big sister, how I miss You so much already. Godmother to my son Alex, you were always there for him and us, a rock of continuity and loving compassion to him,Laurene and me. We were very fortunate to share great times together,be it at family get together, vacations or leisurely weekends here in Ct. All your life you put yourself “out there” to be a friend, and a companion to all. You always embraced the moment ,saw the good in people and you certainly positively touched a lot of lives with your openness and positive attitude. You were in fact the glue for our entire extended family. I feel Blessed and lucky that we had you in our life’s and nearby. I already miss you terribly! I commit to listening better, being less abrupt to honor the love ,patience and kindness you always shared with others, love always and forever your brother, Jack.

Mrs Ped ,

I have never felt so welcomed as a teenager in Any of my friends houses growing up in East Meadow. The love you showed all of us is priceless. Your are a true angel in every sense of the word. Your boys are amazing I feel so connected to your family. I will truly miss your laughter and smiles. Thankyou for being such a bright light to this world. 

With all my Love,

Joshua

Mrs. Pedicini,
It has been quite some time since I had the pleasure of being around you on a regular basis, but one thing always remained constant when I would see you. No matter how much time passed, I would always be greeted with a huge smile and welcoming arms. Never missed a chance to ask how I was doing, and eventually how my family was doing. Nothing ever changed, always the most welcoming person and forever a smile on your face (no matter what transpired the night before at your house!). I will forever remember you as an incredibly strong woman that raised 3 wonderful boys that no doubt was a direct reflection of the type of character you possessed. You leave behind an incredibly close family that will honor you with how they raise their families.
Rest In Peace
Love Frankie

As water reflects a face, so one’s life reflects the heart. Proverbs 27:19
Carol had a joyful heart which produced a reaction of love and joy. She was an amazing, kind and vivacious woman. Someone who was full of life and energy! Carol was a person who had a deep commitment and love for her family. I always enjoyed being with Carol; whether It was getting together for family gatherings or just the two of us going to brunch to catch up on what was happening in our lives. Always good conversation and laughter!! I will miss her infectious laugh and warm hugs.

-Grace

Carol was an amazing person. A warm, loving mother and grandmother. A friend. The best mother-in law our daughter could have wished for. And most important, she was a decent, decent human being.  

We quickly grew to love and admire Carol. From the day we met her, it was as if we had known her forever. The depth of her love for her kids and grandkids was always evident. When you needed her, she was there for you. She remembered life occasions, and always had such a positive attitude.  

Her passing is a loss not just for her family, but for everyone who was fortunate enough to know her.  

We will miss Carol. She will always be in our hearts and we will never forget the love and caring that she represents.  

Linda & Alan Brill 

Aunt Carol
From the early days on Chaladay to the family party’s now. Aunt carol u have been a mother to me through it all. I love you and will always cherish the love you always expressed and made everyone feel. As u are an angel in heaven watching over your boys and grandchildren, we will always feel your heart and life you’ve given us. I love you aunt Carol. You are in my heart forever and ever
Love Ryan Nicholson and family

Ms. Pedicini In the few times we met, you ALWAYS had a smile on your face, and always watched your grandkids, Izzy and Luca, proudly and with love. We didn’t know you well, but we do know the impact you had on your family. A family of love, compassion, kindness, and generosity, and a family we are lucky to call our friends. Rest In Peace. - The Schmidt Family

Dear Carol, 

From the day we met in East Meadow, we became good friends!
I remember those weekly coffee clutches with Mariette,. Marlene and Susan. We celebrated children's birthdays, confirmations, milestone birthdays, Christmas parties and fun New Year Eves! Even though you are in heaven now, I know you will be watching over your kids and grandkids albeit in spirit. You kids were your priority! Our family loved you from when we lived on Leslie Lane and you lived on Chaladay Lane! We will remember the good times we had spending together either having coffee, meeting for lunch/dinner, and of course those special occasion parties. I will miss talking to you 3-4 times a week. I will always cherish your love, friendship, and kindness! Miss you, Carol. May you R.I.P.

-Reena and Satish Khera

Carol A.K.A. Aunt Carol

We talked about Heaven all the time and how we knew we would be there some day. But, I could never imaging you would be there so very soon. It was not our call that you left us!! The Pedicinis and the Nicholsons were so very close. We have known you and Matt for 42 years. We all had the best times together. Camping was always so much fun. Going to Prospect pool 5 times a week, packing lunches and getting the boys all there for their swimming lessons and swimming was terrific. They had real nice summers. Even watching the boys running back and forth from 1712 Chaladay to 1724 Chaladay was a sight to see. Stephen wearing his cowboy boats and underroos, always at the end screaming…Wait for me, wait for me! We laughed so much. We always enjoyed so many special and HAPPY times together. You were a wonderful God Mother to Tom. They are all beautiful memories. Well Carol, we have to go now. We know you are safe and sound. We miss and love you very much. I know also Carol, that someday I will see you again in Heaven. I really believe that. Love and kisses, Rest in Peace dear friend and Aunt.
Love, Mariette & Jim, Jim and Laurie, Shawn & Shelby, Ryan & Melissa, Tom & Alexis & all the grandchildren.

Carol was not just a coworker but a wonderful friend.. Over the years I have grown to know her family and friends. Carol was a unique person who’s age didn’t matter in a friendship, Carol had friends that were 20 or 80. I don’t think I know of a better listener or advice giver than Carol. She was the was the salt of the earth, the best mother and Nonna that I’ve ever known. I can’t imagine how much she will be missed every day, every occasion and every milestone. I’m so sorry for your loss. The world is sadder place without Carol.

-Ariane Butler

Carol, you are and will always be sorely missed. There are so many things I want to say about you and doubt that I can express all of them here or even in several conversations. You were lovely and loving. You were kind and generous. You were fun. You were seriously concerned for others. We could joke and we could analyze together to try to figure out the whys and why nots. I do not like using past tense in this message. I feel that is so final. I do not believe that all these things I have said have stopped because you are not physically with us. You will always be here to all of us because you live in our hearts, our conversations, our thoughts and our memories. I, along with so many others, are blessed to have had you in our lives.

-Clair